Animal Instincts

While in the day one can pretend to ignore them, gloss over them, they are quite ruthless in the night....... when there's hardly any mental control. Will some one say to me what's the whole point.???????? Ok not just desire , can other stuffs like fear, narrowness, jealousy, be also worn out of my nature and i can be FREE!!!!!!!????????????? Can i be another man? Or is it like how that Karmayogi says, exists only in fiction. And Mother offers that to you.